|
If you are not registered or logged in to the forum, you may still view these forums but with limited features. You can register by clicking here. If you have any questions, please check the Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ).
|
|
|
|
|
|
tHiShOrnYgirLy
Newbie
Posts: 3
Registered: 07-17-2006 Location:
|
|
posted on 07-17-2006 at 23:34 |
|
|
| |
i lost it:(
hello, i am 13 and i have just lost my virginity 
it first started when i met this guy at school and i liked him because he was good-looking. he asked me out so i defintely said yes.
he came over and said that he wanted to have sex. i denied him but he said that it would be fun. he forced me to it and i was scared so i did as he asked.
i regret it now because i didn't enjoy my first and i did it so early time and that he just used me.
what should i do.. i feel so used... what should i do?
|
|
|
|
Gonzalez87
Member
Posts: 37
Registered: 07-12-2006 Location:
|
|
posted on 07-18-2006 at 13:25 |
|
|
| |
Well...
Well you have lost it and that something you gonna have to live with.
Be sure to get checked if you shallowed any cum or did not use a condom.
If this guy does this alot who knows what he could pick up. Also make sure your not pregnant because it only takes one time even if he pulls out b4 he cums.
Once you have been checked you can put your mind at rest.
One thing I must say is you may have had sex but you have not made love.
You have had a screw and done all that stuff.
You have not felt the emotions that come with it when it's really special and you love the person.
When you meet the right man and you both love each other more than anything in the world then it will be like you first time all over again but with the drive to want it.
Just remember that time was about power for that guy. That he could get what he wanted.
Real sex is about love and passion.
When your older you will get plenty of that sex and this will be one of those "young and stupid" moments.
It won't make your husband love you any less.
Remeber to get checked incase. I hope your alrite.
Once thats out of the way remember that you only had sex. You did not kill someone.
Your going to be ok. trust me  x
|
|
|
|
Bred_Rong
Newbie
Posts: 7
Registered: 08-10-2006 Location:
|
|
posted on 08-10-2006 at 07:52 |
|
|
| |
wtf @ 13?
u should be ashamed of urself 4 being a whore, that's what u should do! OMG! i didn't have sex for the first time until i was 14, u need to just go around & fuck every guy u see now so at least u'll be the girl every1 gets 2 fuck!!!!
|
|
|
|
Gonzalez87
Member
Posts: 37
Registered: 07-12-2006 Location:
|
|
posted on 08-10-2006 at 13:50 |
|
|
| |
?
Ignore this prat. 14 is soooo different from 13. Like 1 year of a difference. If you get maried when your 27 and this person get married when they are 28, I guess they waitied for the right person 
The simple fact is you had an experiance, you leant from it, no shame in that. I guess Americans are really porn mad victorians if thats how you all feel about this girl.
I personnaly think its just one bad apple however.
Don't worry yourself. Like I said b4 you had sex, you didn't kill anyone.
take care 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Processed in 0.012 seconds, 11 queries
|
Singles Advice - Dating Advice reserves the right to block, delete, or edit any and all posts. The Moderator has sole discretion on the content of this site. Anyone who posts accepts these terms, and waves any and all rights to bring any legal action against Singles Advice - Dating Advice. If you disapprove of any of the above, do not use, read, or post in Singles Advice - Dating Advice
|
Singles Advice - Dating Advice - List Topic Replies
|
