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PopStar
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posted on 01-21-2011 at 05:49 |
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Should we be virgin till marriage
If you truly are in love, it is no sin. Its a special closeness and passion that you can't feel any other way.
I think waiting until marriage is overrated and unnecessary. And I can not think of a benefit besides making sure you don't get an STD, but if you are safe you wont get one either.
Waiting until marriage does not make it any more special if its with someone you truly love. But it does make your relationship leading up to your marriage more enjoyable and creates more special, intimate moments.
And god does not praise you for being a virgin until married. He will not shun you or give you bad karma, or whatever else others believe. If that were true, most of the world would be truly shunned and unhappy. But clearly, that is not true.
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friend4354
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posted on 02-08-2011 at 07:49 |
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Reply
I am well familiar with these opinions.
The only thing you can think of by waiting is avoiding an STD - a physical, material thing.
In fact, when a woman demands her man wait for her he feels very special. It makes it more difficult to attain her. She is special.
Sex is reproductive behaviour. When two human beings engage in this behaviour, their bodies react in preparation of a child, whether you kill off this possibility or not using effective birth control.
A woman secretes hormones that bonds her to the man. A man more easily can leave her. The solution to this situation is to get married, since, according to our biological reactions, the woman is prepared to nurture a child.
For sure, sex is an amazing experience, but there are also reproductive results, even when no child is actually born.
I have not included God in these arguments, since that is a religious question. I have merely stated biological facts and emotional reactions due to increased hormone production.
'If you truly are in love, it is no sin. Its a special closeness and passion that you can't feel any other way.
I think waiting until marriage is overrated and unnecessary. And I can not think of a benefit besides making sure you don't get an STD, but if you are safe you wont get one either.
Waiting until marriage does not make it any more special if its with someone you truly love. But it does make your relationship leading up to your marriage more enjoyable and creates more special, intimate moments.
And god does not praise you for being a virgin until married. He will not shun you or give you bad karma, or whatever else others believe. If that were true, most of the world would be truly shunned and unhappy. But clearly, that is not true. '
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anonymousperson
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posted on 06-18-2011 at 04:00 |
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shell we be virgins until merriage
a big huge no no, at least for me
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alisamoran99
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posted on 07-21-2011 at 00:29 |
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virgins until merriage
It's good for everyone to be virgins till marriage. It definitely help to stop to spread lot's of diseases like AIDS/HIV, or other STD problem. Because of losing the virginity probably teenager facing lot's of problem.
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Leonie
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posted on 11-21-2011 at 20:34 |
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Hmm...
Personally, I don't want to wait until marriage. I want to wait until I find a partner who is right for me.
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Shona
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posted on 02-05-2012 at 02:39 |
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loosing virginity by masterbation
But, what if a girl looses virginity while masterbating,before marriage, bt never have let any guy touch her. does she still have cheated her would be husband? does she have to answer her family and husband for d same? wil she risk her, for getting married.
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Shona
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posted on 02-05-2012 at 02:39 |
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loosing virginity by masterbation
But, what if a girl looses virginity while masterbating,before marriage, bt never have let any guy touch her. does she still have cheated her would be husband? does she have to answer her family and husband for d same? wil she risk her, for getting married.
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clarence_rutherford
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Registered: 03-17-2013 Location: US
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posted on 03-25-2013 at 11:30 |
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Still a vrigin...
" 'But, what if a girl looses virginity while masterbating,before marriage, bt never have let any guy touch her. does she still have cheated her would be husband? does she have to answer her family and husband for d same? wil she risk her, for getting married.' "
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Shona,
NO !!
You're still a virgin !!
As long as you've never let a guy put his penis into her, she's still a virgin.
Don't think otherwise.
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grxzptl
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Registered: 04-28-2013 Location: CANADA
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posted on 04-28-2013 at 09:39 |
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stay virgin till marriage
Like to respond to 'friend4354' and his comments..
He says he is not including GOD in his comments since that is religious..
Then he goes on to talk about what is not sin..
If you are going to talk about sin.. then you are including GOD in your discussion..
You cannot seperate sin and GOD.. one implies the other...
Then a bit further he says that GOD will not praise the girl who stays a virgin till marriage..
I thought he was not going to talk about GOD...
So, if we are going to talk about whether remaining virgin till marriage is good or not.. we must include GOD.. since HE is the one who sets the standards for good and evil, right and wrong..
Remember ... Thou shalt not kill, etc...
And HE sets that or those standards in the HOLY BIBLE.. HIS roadmap for us humans to live our lives..
The truth is that to have sex before marriage is sin..
If that is true, then it is wrong and it has to be bad..
And anyone who does it will feel bad.. because GOD put a consciense within us.
If it is not sin, then no body would ever feel bad..
Unfortunately for some people, it seems, we are a bit higher creations than the dogs and cats..
Sex is designed by GOD for marriage.. PERIOD !!!
GOD invented marriage and HE knows the best way for us humans to live..
If we follow HIS advise.. given to us in the BIBLE.. the WORD of GOD, we will be blessed, be happy and have a successful life.. by anybodies definition...
And no amount of people giving their humble opinion and saying it is not sin is going to change the truth..
Marriage is sacred and and the home and the family are all protected if it is held in the highest esteem...
And if not, then we have what we have today..
Divorce everywhere, and society basically falling apart...
Unwed pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases and on and on..
Sexually transmitted diseases result from people having sex with many partners thinking that this is a good thing or unable to practise any restraint with their urges.
If everyone remained a virgin till marriage there would be no sexually transmitted diseases..
They result from violating GODS laws... HELLO ?????
So there you have it..
Do not try and talk about sin and think you can leave GOD out of that..
And it is not religious, it is what is written in black and white in the BIBLE.. King James
Version if you like..
Read and enjoy the truth...
CHOW...
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jesseperezz
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posted on 04-07-2014 at 21:58 |
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To the Girls, yes it's best to wait till marriage
If you give it up before marriage, how are you going to feel after he breaks up with you after he gets what he wants?
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