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naughtynurse
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Registered: 05-19-2004 Location:
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posted on 05-19-2004 at 09:06 |
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Swing Club
We are newbies to the lifestyle so we have a few questions. 1. When in the rooms of clubs, once naked do you stay naked? 2. Are guys running around the club stiff? 3. What is usual amount of time one spends at a club? 4. At most clubs, does group sex occur or is it usually couples swapping? 5. We have voyeuristic tendencies, can one come to the club and just watch others get it on?
I hope my q's do not sound too idiotic, but we are new and trying to figure it out
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alone_star
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posted on 05-19-2004 at 09:13 |
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These answers are going to vary from club to club, as different clubs have different rules and expectations. But in general...
1. It really depends on how the club is set up. I know of some clubs that have certain areas where you are required to be nude to be in that area. Most clubs have private or semi-private rooms where you can do what you want, then you will probably want to get dressed when you leave the room (whatever state of dress you prefer). I would say in general, women will probably be in lingerie at most. As was mentioned, men (for some odd reason) tend to stay a bit more dressed than the ladies.
2. Sometimes. A lot depends on the guy and whether or not he just got done having sex and didn't come (or came and stayed hard). For most tho, seeing sex is a common thing and they aren't likely to be hard just due to the environment. Iwould say that for most who are new tho, it is normal to "sport wood" on your initial visit or two, just due to the excitement and newness of the situation.
3. Again that depends a lot on the club hours and what you choose to do. Most clubs have both areas for sex and areas where you can drink and socialize. Most people will initiallly spend some time in the latter area before going to the former. Some may stay in the playrooms for hours playing with different partners, while others may never even make it to the playrooms at all. Stay as long as you are having fun.
4. A bit of both, again depending on the club. Many clubs have "group" rooms where group play is more common and encouraged. If the club only has private rooms (which are usually smaller) it is less likely there will be much group play.
5. There will probably be plenty who won't mind you watching as they play.
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Wing
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Registered: 05-13-2004 Location:
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posted on 05-19-2004 at 09:21 |
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Clubs are pretty cool something there for everyone. I have been to one club and love it. It has rooms set up for voyeurs where you can walk by and see people through a wall of glass. Yes you can walk around naked after finishing sex or run around in your underwear or whatever your comfortable in. I have never really noticed guys running around stiff but I don't tend to look that direction because I hate it myself when someone is talking to me and looking at my body parts instead of my eyes. The amount of time varies we usually spend the night after it has thinned out a lot we go and find a vacant room and crash , we do this because the drive home is long.
I hope you have a great time at the club.
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DIRTYTALK
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Registered: 05-19-2004 Location:
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posted on 05-19-2004 at 09:39 |
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First time club experiences....
In your first club appearence what were you looking for and what actually happened? I'm not actually looking for stories just a look into how your first time in a club worked it's way out.
If you were looking for soft swing, basically just wanting to watch and play with your spouse or did you end up getting more than you expected?
Just curious. My wife and i are thinking about attending Trapeze in Ft. Lauderdale next month but we have never been to a club before. Just looking for some feedback on everyone's adventures in there first club experience.
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night_star
Newbie
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Registered: 06-25-2004 Location:
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posted on 06-25-2004 at 08:08 |
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When you walk into a swing club for the very first time, you are probably very nervous. If you are a couple then you are both nervous. You don't know anyone there. You might feel like everyone is watching you, just like in Junior High School when a new kid first came into class. That's a good sign! That means you are normal because that's exactly how everone feels their first time. Nervous, apprehensive, curious and of course more than a little excited with anticipation and expectations of a sexy, erotically orgasmic night!
You might expect a lot when you come to a club and that's probably the biggest cause of anxiety for first time visitors. I realize that for many men it's hard not to think about fulfilling all your fantasies about orgies and threesomes involving the man with two women, ect.... That could be a huge mistake. As a first time visitor, wives are usually more nervous about the evening, and one sure way to add fuel to that nervous fire is for her to see her husband bouncing off the walls with excitement about jumping into an orgy or looking overly anxious about being with anyone new and that is not his mate.
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sexyann1914
Newbie
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Registered: 03-17-2006 Location: birmingham alabama
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posted on 03-17-2006 at 21:04 |
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baby1952000
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