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durmo
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posted on 08-09-2012 at 08:36 |
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26 year old man virgin in canada
I'm 26, and I still haven't had sex. I'm not really interested in the actual experience of sex, but more just losing the stigma of 'virgin'.
It is annoying to be a virgin in this society, because it is assumed that every man is into sex, and so if you say you don't want it, people automatically imply that you are just lying, and that all men want sex.
My goal is just to have sex once, and then continue living as I did before, but with less annoyance, and without feeling so at odds with the rest of society.
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Teri35
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posted on 08-09-2012 at 10:19 |
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Unique situation
I don't know if I have ever heard a guy saying what you're saying here, so you don't find ANY interest in having sex at all even once?
I understand you not wanting to deal with the stigmas or whatever, but you shouldn't go and have sex if its something you don't want to do for yourself. If people are asking about your sex life, they should be people you trust and you shouldn't have a problem being honest with them, the people who are asking about your sex life that you dont want to tell ,just say its none of their business
Live for yourself not others
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durmo
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posted on 08-10-2012 at 04:34 |
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yep
I have the capacity for sexual pleasure, but that doesn't translate to the desire for sex. I have extreme sensitivity and social inhibitions, which make sex appear more like a potential nightmare than a fun experience.
It's not just sex though. I don't even enjoy going to movies, or doing anything, for that matter.
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