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meninlove
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Posts: 0
Registered: 11-15-2017 Location: none
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posted on 11-15-2017 at 19:20 |
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How to open up to women online that I am divorced and a father of two?
I’ve been divorced not too long and have two kids with me. It’s been a couple of years since then but I feel like I’m ready to get back into the game and find someone.
I don’t think I have what it takes to find someone in person. I know that my age is beyond what women would find attractive. But a few of my friends convinced me to try online dating and while I was searching for some trusted and decent dating sites, I came across AFA
I’m honestly rusty with everything. I absolutely don’t know what to do and how to approach a woman online. I feel as though there are many key points I should mention in my personal information page, but I’m lost.
If I do match with a woman from abroad, I’m clueless as to how I can make a connection. How can I tell her about my past marriage and the fact that I’m a father of two children? I hear that younger women don’t find these things attractive. I’m nervous at the thought of never finding the right woman.
I can easily say that having nobody to love you after a tough divorce is hard to deal with. I would like to open my doors again to love and maybe find a woman who’s truly the one for me.
It’s been difficult these past few years of being a single father and with my age advancing. I try to keep an open mind and to stay positive. I just really need some help with all this. Any kind of advice and some tips will greatly boost my confidence. Thank you so much in advance!
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gotbeefbrah
Member
Posts: 6
Registered: 06-15-2020 Location: Oahu Hawaii
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posted on 07-15-2020 at 02:18 |
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Why the problem hooking up?
I don't get it, brah. So what if you've got kids. Plenty of ladies with kids are looking for a mature hookup. Kids are like puppies, they make women smile inside if you're a good father. You love your sons, that's a plus in my opinion.
I think the problem is in your own head. It's not the kids. It's not that you forgot how to speak or write to women. It's that you've been damaged and your self esteem is bruised. Like the man said, get back up on that horse. Have a talk with yourself. Tell yourself that you are going to do it even if it doesn't turn out the way you planned. When you get all skiddish and shit, do the opposite of what your fear tells you. Be a man, brah. You'll get there.
We've all had heartbreaks. You're not the first man to have a fucked up divorce. Stop being a pussy, brah. Step up and realize that it doesn't take perfection to step up a notch. No woman wants a perfect man anyway, unless its because she's looking for a perfect statue to chisle and carve in to her own art work. Women aren't perfect either. They can be totally f'd up. And lots of guys who are more afraid and bruised than you are sleeping with good looking wahines.
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